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Grief, glitter, and what we leave behind.
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Hey Reader, I'm not going to lie. It's been a rough few weeks. My father-in-law passed away in August. One of my clients sent me this... Someone said grief is like glitter. It clings to everything. Hides in corners. Slips into your socks. Appears on your fingertips when you’re reaching for a glass of water, or brushing your hair before bed. It settles in places no one else can see. And sometimes, it sparkles. Sometimes, it doesn’t.
There’s no proper timeline for learning how to live with what you miss. Some days you’ll do it gracefully. Other days, you’ll choke on it. That’s still living.
And maybe that’s the kindest thing about grief: it’s evidence that something mattered.
My father-in-law did indeed matter to us. Yesterday, I stood in his closet, organizing and boxing things up. We took his painting supplies to the art studio where he used to paint with other residents at his retirement village. The staff there were so grateful for the donation. My husband quietly said, “It’s sad that my father’s life will be reduced to a few boxes.” I thought about that. He’s right. But as you know, it's never been about the stuff for me. And it never will be. As I help my aging parents, this feels more true every day. Maybe that's why you're here, too. → You want your life to be about more than boxes of stuff. → You want your life to be about people. → And you don’t want to leave your family with the burden of sorting through it all someday, while they’re also trying to grieve. I hope that is what you're thinking. And if you’re ready to make the time you have left in this world mean more than a couple of boxes, hit reply and let’s talk. Amy |
Simply Enough by Amy Slenker-Smith
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Hey Reader, If your house feels like too much right now, you’re not alone.The truth is: most people try to start with the hardest things first—sentimental items, keepsakes, gifts. But when you're overwhelmed, the smartest way to start is with the easiest space. 📍 A drawer.📍 A single shelf.📍 One small corner you can finish today. Not everything. Just something. 🎥 I made a quick video to walk you through it: ✨ Ready for more support? Join the free 5-Day Reset: From Cluttered to Clear. Short,...
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