We traded holiday gifts for a winter vacation


Hey Reader,

The holiday travel talk has started. Who's hosting Thanksgiving. Whose house for Christmas. Who's driving and who's flying.

That means it's time to bring up gift giving too. Did you know that 53% of Americans open at least one gift they don't want every year? And 1 out of 4 are still paying off debt from last year. That's a lot of money wasted on unwanted gifts.

Years ago, our family switched from gifts to experiences. Zack was learning to snowboard, so we went on a trip with his cousins in February. It gave us an excuse to spend more time with them too. Everyone preferred spending the money on a winter vacation instead of a bunch of stuff.

If you're hoping to simplify gift giving this year, here's how to set the stage with your family:

  • Talk with your partner first. Agree on one holiday budget for gifts, travel, and entertainment.
  • Bring it up early, like right now.
  • Start with the traditions everyone loves. Then talk gifts.
  • Ask one simple question: “Does everyone want to exchange gifts?”
  • Suggest a shared experience instead. A show, ice skating, dinner out, or a trip if the budget allows.

Less stuff to buy and wrap means more time with the people you're going to see.

Here's my blog post on how to have this conversation with your family.

👉 How To Talk To Your Family About Simplifying Gift Giving​

Until next time,

Amy

P.S. If you missed my brand video last week, it's my story of Simply Enough (with a Zeke cameo). 👉 The Day I Stopped Buying Stuff to Get Organized (Watch time: 3 minutes)

Amy Slenker-Smith, Simply Enough

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